Dating a southern black man

A lot of people on the Internet like to weigh-in negatively about interracial relationships and why they happen.

Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! they definitely have a negative opinion of us, which is fine because black ppl here tend to have a negative opinion on southern black ppl to be honest. these are from my own experiences as far as dealing with family and friends in the south, having lived there and currently dating a southern black female. ..when everybody was posting these sorts of things you were silent and you wait til i post to chime in? But just about every Black person I know eats soul food except me. " SMH..leave it to you guys and we're all arrogant, we lack manners, we don't know anything, immature, childish, uppity, uncultured, non religious, black ppl that have a skewed view of life and we lack morals. I got really tickled by the line, "We don't really eat many of the same foods. Up north eating habits are more localized depending on where your from.

There is something about the way Southern men treat a lady that really gets me going (in a good way). They don't get all pissy on you when you cry, they think most of the stupid things you do are cute, and they are very good at teasing you till you are so hot under the collar you could just die! The only reason I say that is because Northern men like the tough no nonsense women, where as Southern men are raised to marry a traditional propper perky "lady." Although, Southern men are usually a lot more down to earth than Northern men.

The southern guys I have dated have all just been fun to be around. One of the reasons that I can't be with a Southern man very easily is because I'm so forward & not exactly the traditional "lady." I think it would be easier for me to be with a ... That's where the phrase "Down home Southern charm" comes from. I don't wear highheals or skirts, I don't eat like a bird & chew with little fine pecks, I don't tease & fluf up my hair for a half an hour, I don't spray any of that fine perfume, etc.

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They don't want to say the N-word, but they do want to talk about why some people do.

Though I date smart enough humans to not ever be asked to be the voice of my entire race, I still get asked how I feel about rappers using the N-word, and who has access to it.Every damn body loves fried chicken, but now he's far too aware of the stereotypes associated and will be torn about it every time you pass a KFC.4. As much as we live in a post-racial society , their friends may not be as enlightened as they are. Seasoning skills are not something you are born with. Maybe he doesn't know the words to "Creep" by TLC, but you don't know the words to "Creep" by Radiohead either, so be open to those experiences. Be Uhura and Spock from Star Trek, be Pocahontas and John Smith--or, you can blow everyone's minds and go as just a pumpkin or a witch. But, you can definitely take yourselves less seriously on October 31st each year.9.Their friends want to know what the differences are, even when none are all that apparent. If he says the wrong thing, and you catch wind of it, he knows that's his ass. When you fall in love, it will have nothing to do with your race.In high school, there were other Black students, but none of them in my close-knit drama and speech class circles. It might start with an innocent "did you get a haircut" right after you wash your hair and there is shrinkage--but it does not end... From moisturizing, to protecting with a satin cap, there is always a new and interesting thing for your guy to discover.Because of this, I have dated quite a few White guys, and while there are similarities when dating any man, there are still some small cultural quirks that never go unnoticed when you’re with a White dude. Trust me, while it gets easier to explain, it doesn't ever stop needing to be explained.2.Create your black dating profile today and watch your dating life take off!

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