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Join Black Cupid today and become a part of the most exciting black dating and black chat network in the USA.With a free membership on Black Cupid you can browse our black personals to find the sexy black singles you've been looking for. But one black Irish blogger isn’t standing for it anymore. When you sexualise us you don’t make us feel beautiful.

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So I decided to explore why I could love white men like family but not envision them as potential partners. Love for men who move through the world in ways that remind me of my father. A black man comfortable in his skin and walking in his purpose remains the ideal. There is also the fact that I was raised a good Southern black woman, albeit one freer than most.

Fear of being ostracized by those very same men or fetishized by their white counterparts. I grew up surrounded by handsome black men who were strong-minded, hard-working, upwardly mobile and worldly. At a home, it was understood that if Billy Dee Williams — not Paul Newman, not Richard Gere — should ever knock on our door, my mother was leaving with him. Still, as a rule, good Southern black women do not dishonor their communities or betray their history by willingly sleeping with white men. The same grace that is extended to black men who date white women is not as easily extended to black women who do the same.

All seem no more or less happy than other couples I know.

I had no good reason why white guys were off my romantic radar.

Men of character, wit and charisma, alongside whom I have spent some of the best times of my life. East and South Asians, Persians, Arabs, Native Americans, Polynesians — all options as far as I was concerned. Then came the night my girlfriend jokingly called me a racist after I rejected a list of possible options, including her brilliant and cute brother, because they just were “not my type,” my longtime code for “melanin-deficient.” We laughed about it. I pride myself on being open and accepting people at face value, yet, consciously or not, I was writing off millions of single and potentially interesting American men simply because they were white.

Yet, until recently, I did not consider white men as romantic prospects. Meanwhile, my social circle is full of black women married to or dating white men. Dear Irishman, the next time you set your green eyes on me, remember this: There’s more to me than my colour. There’s more to me than the body that you have unjustly exotified because you refuse to look at what I can offer you intellectually. ‘Men will talk to me and say they think I’m beautiful and sexy, but it’s almost always because of my race. I wasn’t brought to this world to explore your sexual curiosity and I do not exist to fulfil your sexual needs. ‘Over the last few months, since I downloaded Plenty of Fish, Tinder and OK Cupid, I’ve been experiencing this kind of attitude.Create your black dating profile today and watch your dating life take off!Black Cupid is part of the well-established Cupid Media network that operates over 30 reputable niche dating sites.Only a small percentage of Colombian women on the website indicate a preference for skin color.

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