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Let her know that while you love her and want her to be happy, you’re just still not comfortable with the idea of her dating your brother.

Explain that she really hurt your feelings when she started dating him behind your back, and don’t be afraid to tell her how angry it made you.

My brother and I have always been very close, and obviously my friend is my best friend, but now when I hang out with them I feel like a third wheel…with my two dearest confidants!

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Talking to them together isn’t going to work, because you’re going to feel like an outsider, and they’re going to just support each other.

Tell your BFF you need to talk to her alone about something serious.

Honestly, I feel a bit weird about it myself, but I really love him (and I know he loves me), and I know that the longer the relationship lasts, the less weird the age gap is going to seem.

He and I fit together in a way I've never experienced with any other person (I've had plenty of experience, including several serious long-term relationships).

I said, “If you say one more word about this I’m placing a tape X over your mouth.” It’s a horrible situation when it goes south and it ain’t that fun when it’s going well.

I think it’s important to remember this is a transition; they are either going to settle in as a couple or not but you’re in the height of all things weird right now—the movie kisses and all that junk.

The thing is, I haven't told my friend because I don't know how she is going to react.

For one thing, he is younger, and even though we are both adults (he's 20, I'm 25), people tend to think it's weird when the woman is significantly older than the man.

Whereas before I was the connection between them, they’re now closer to one another, in some ways more than they are with me, and I’m having trouble finding my place in this new dynamic. Beforehand, I made each of them pinky swear to keep me out of the loop because my brother was a serial dumper and the friend was the kind of person who NEVER LISTENED WHEN YOU TOLD HER THAT MY BROTHER WAS DEFINITELY GOING TO DUMP HER.

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